With Love, Laura Beth

Words from my heart

Good Argument

Kennedy Fraser is an essayist and fashion writer. I had never heard of her until last week. The textbook for my journalism class referenced Fraser for honest, vulnerable writingwriting that “seizes” attention. Her courage came from other women writers, like Virginia Woolf, who used their journals, diaries, and letters to share intimate true-life stories. Those stories pulled Fraser through lonely times, reassuring her she wasn’t alone.

That’s why I readto not be alone. I knew this long before I came across C.S. Lewis’ famous quote, “We read to know we’re not alone.”  And I write to pass on the messageyou are not alone.

Soencouraged by Fraser and WoolfI offer you one of my journal entries from this past summer. Nothing shocking, but a step toward being a little more vulnerable.

Wednesday, July 31, 2013 – 8:11 P.M. 

Last day of the monthfeeling DOOOWWWNNN. What a roller coaster, even with taking antidepressants. Geez! The MLS all-star game is onrecording it for Jaime. I think they’re playing Romania and losing 3-0.

Anyway . . .

quotesI recently found two websites that turn text into nifty-looking quotes. Ideal for Pinterest. Yesterday, I spent hours transferring my quote collection into pin-able little ditties. So much fun! A great diversion from bills and dishes and laundry. And please, somebody tell me why in the world I can’t get my white towels white! Maddening!

As I pinned my inspired little heart out with quality quotes, Ralph Waldo Emerson whispered in my ear: “Stay at home in your mind. Don’t recite other people’s opinions. I hate quotations. Tell me what you know.”  

Uh-oh. I confess I’m better at reiterating what other people have said. I’m constantly saying, “In a book I read once . . ..” Or, “An author I read said . . ..” I hesitate to voice my opinions with confidence, especially when I’m talking with Jaime. Why is that? He’s so sure about what he thinks. When I try to express how I feel or what I believe, I feel like I have to convince him. I shouldn’t have to convince anyone. 

On the other hand, now that I’m in back in college, I’m being reminded that arguments are a good thing:       “ . . . making an argument—expressing a point of view on a subject and supporting it with evidence—is often the aim of academic writing. Your instructors may assume that you know this and thus may not explain the importance of arguments in class.”

Aha! Being married to Jaime is actually good training ground for my writing. Maybe I need to listen to Emerson and let go of my quote collection, and instead dive deeper into my discussions with Jaime, even to the point of being frustrated. A little fire in my belly wouldn’t hurt. Sounds like the perfect strategy to discover how I REALLY feel about things.

Jaime just got home, and I’m going to tell him what I’m writing. Maybe it will spark an argument. 

GOOD!

(Blog posted with a thumbs up from Jaime)

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3 comments on “Good Argument

  1. Shelly
    November 16, 2013

    I agree with Deb! And I like the thumbs up from Jamie at the end. 🙂 One of my favorite things about this piece is how you took so many ideas and connected them all together – I was you, processing the thoughts as they came. And then a big insight at the end with a courageous choice to take a risk!

  2. Deb
    October 23, 2013

    Oh, Laura Beth, you make me smile! I love your style…and your opinions…and your honesty…and your humor. I am enjoying seeing the confident and assured side of you come out. What a wonderful mind you have…let it reveal more of you so that we can all be blessed by that!

    • lbwramirez
      October 23, 2013

      I’m so glad this made you smile, Debbie 🙂 I value your comment . . . I think I’ll print this one out and keep it on my desk for daily inspiration. Thank you, friend!

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